But for men on PrEP who make the decision not to use condoms, monthly testing is the minimum degree of self-care that you should practice. Do not rush it. Just wait for it. There is a trick I learned at the Folsom Street Fair a couple years ago. When I was little, my father would drag my sister and me out in the cold morning in camouflage outfits and orange hats to sit with him in a deer stand and practice shooting his gun.
This is why I almost always clean out beforehand.
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Most guys have different cleaning methods depending on the kind of sex they want to have. Anal sex should never, ever hurt. Barebacking is in, and the vast majority of homos I know do it. The rectum and anus are filled with so many rich nerve endings waiting to be fingered, fucked, plugged, pegged and probed. This thinking does not work so well for HIV, since HIV can stay in the body for months before it registers on an HIV test, during which time the virus is very transmissible. Many guys prefer spit — I do — but spit typically will not work for rough sex or extended play. What kind of lubricant should I use for anal sex?